Chungying's literature is overwhelming myself lols. So, here are some thoughts after reading a random book, and getting emotional.. haha. so better pen it down rather than to keep it to myself. =)
Honesty is humanity
Why do people who tell lies avoid eye contact? Why do liars feel threatened when you start questioning about their lies? Because he is subconsciously aware that there is something not to let out, there is a deep secret; probably piles of lies, in him that shouldn’t be revealed for it will ruin everything that he tried to build up. And why will he ask if you trust him from time to time? He needs reassurance, the suspicious someone is paranoid and is not confident with his imperfect lies. So, the deal is, to keep asking and he will be so threatened that he give up, either to reveal the true him or to make another lie to end his lies with this person. And the end result is: he solved his problems and move on for another hunt. And the victim would learn from this short, but painful lesson and thank him for the real life experience that is fundamental for a more developed maturity. Well, another noble but foolish way is for the victim to be pretentious, you act to know him as the person he presents himself as, and wait for him to slowly and repentantly to reveal his true colours. But more often than not, it wouldn’t happen. Instead, you would have a long and more painful lesson, though you might be able to gain more from it because you gave chance for him to repent for his mistakes. It is humane to be honest with yourself; being dishonest can be seen as digging your own grave, you make things in your life complicated, and giving yourself more excuses time to time, and most importantly, it is your heart that you are against. You can fool anyone out there, but not your inner self, not your true self and your loved ones, especially your family.
Lies after lies, would you have forgotten the simplicity of trueness, even within your personal space?
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