"Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let's try to figure out why they do what they do. There's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; it breeds sympathy, tolerance and kindness. To know all is to forgive all." I read this short paragraph from a book and i was thinking abt it..
anyway, I am someone that cannot take criticism and will get angry and offended easily.. I am extremely sensitive to the words pple use, especially words from insensitive pple.. yea.. say i am petty i will scream at u! hahaha. I have to learn how to accept criticism and even try to thank the person that criticised me for pointing out my mistakes and giving me a chance to improve. I should be TOLERANT and OPEN TO OPINIONS.. i should get rid of my stubborn, childish and pampered characteristics..
However, is criticising the best way to convey a message? i dun think so because i dun like pple doing it on me and i seldom do it on pple. Humans are emotional creatures that like to be appreciated and hate it when others condemn them like they are total losers.. First, it will demoralise the person, second, it will stir up hatred btw them... So, i guess the best way is to be sensitive towards pple's feelings and put words nicely in such a way that u seemed really helpful and caring instead of being aggressive and ego..
*this is a random comment, not specifically saying anyone.. dun be sensitive hor!
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